Caught up in the daily grind, the expectations of others, and the relentless pursuit of goals, we often sideline our own wants, needs, and desires. But imagine for a moment that happiness is a buffet laid out before you, brimming with choices that cater to every whim and fancy. This buffet allows you to select not just one but multiple delights that promise to enrich your life. It's about crafting a personal Happiness Buffet— start with a list of 7 things you love to do, big or small, that light up your world. The act of choosing one and indulging in it will significantly enhance your sense of control and fulfillment. Let's explore how setting the intention to engage with these joys can transform your daily existence.

Crafting Your Happiness Buffet

The idea is simple yet profoundly impactful. By identifying and writing down 7 activities that bring you happiness, you create a personal toolkit for joy that you can dip into any time you feel overwhelmed, stressed, or just in need of a pick-me-up. These activities don't have to be grand or time-consuming; they just need to be genuine sources of joy for you. We suggest at least 7 so you can pick 1 for each day of the week.

To kickstart your Happiness Buffet, here are 7 delights known to foster happiness. Use these as inspiration to create your personalized list, and remember, the key is in setting the intention to incorporate them into your life mindfully.

Nature Walks

Immersing yourself in nature has a profound ability to boost mood, improve mental health, and provide a sense of peace. Whether it's a brisk walk in the park or a leisurely stroll through the woods, the connection with nature is a surefire delight on the Happiness Buffet.

Creative Pursuits

Engaging in creative activities—be it painting, writing, cooking, or crafting—allows for self-expression and can be incredibly fulfilling. Creativity is not about the outcome but about the process and the joy it brings.

Physical Activity

Exercise releases endorphins, known as the body's natural happiness chemicals. Whether it's yoga, dancing, cycling, or a home workout, find a physical activity you enjoy and make it a regular part of your Happiness Buffet.

Mindfulness and Meditation

Taking time to be present and practice mindfulness or meditation can significantly reduce stress and increase feelings of happiness. Even just a few minutes a day can make a difference.

Connecting with Loved Ones

Spending quality time with family and friends, or even reaching out to someone you haven't spoken to in a while, can boost your spirits and strengthen your connections.

Learning Something New

The excitement of learning a new skill or diving into a new hobby can be exhilarating and satisfying. It's about the journey of discovery and the joy of expanding your horizons.

Acts of Kindness

Performing random acts of kindness—big or small—can bring immense joy not only to the receiver but to you as well. The act of giving without expecting anything in return is a powerful source of happiness.

Setting the Intention

The secret to enjoying the Happiness Buffet is not just in creating the list but in actively choosing to indulge in these delights. Set the intention each day or week to engage with at least one item from your buffet. By doing so, you affirm your commitment to your own happiness and well-being.

Life's daily challenges and demands can easily overshadow our personal joys if we let them. However, by mindfully creating and indulging in your  very own Happiness Buffet, you take back control and infuse your life with joy, satisfaction, and fulfillment. Start today by writing down your 7 wishes and make a conscious effort to pick one. Remember, happiness is not just about the big moments; it's also found in the small, everyday choices we make for ourselves. Just pick one and do it !!! 

Take it one step further - at the end of each day write in your nightly journal.  How did you feel today? Did the accomplishment of doing just one thing from your Happiness Buffet  move your personal happiness dial. By following your journey and writing down your feelings  you will be able to monitor your progress on the journey to  regaining your sense of purpose and self.